Town & Style 10.15.25

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ONE BOLD FUTURE.

IN THE

the ritz-carlton, st. louis

The hotel revealed the multi-million dollar renovation of its historic ballroom. The 12,200-square-footspace has been transformed as part of the hotel’s 35th anniversary celebration.

maplewood public library

Local architecture, planning, urban design and interiors firm Trivers has completed a $3 million renovation of the library. The project began in 2024 with the primary goal of waterproofing and repairing existing water damage to the building, which was originally a changing facility for the Maplewood community pool.

caritas family solutions

The nonprofit received the 2025 Award for Treating Foster Parents with Dignity and Respect from the Illinois Department of Children and Family Services. The award recognizes agencies that go above and beyond to provide support and respectful guidance for

united provisions

The international market in the Delmar Loops is helping St. Louis celebrate Dia de los Muertos with limited-edition mystery packs filled with festive Hispanic treats. A portion of the proceeds will benefit the Hispanic Chamber of Commerce – St. Louis.

TO THE FUTURE

NOW IS AN EXCITING TIME AT THE WHITFIELD SCHOOL. The independent coeducational college preparatory day school in Creve Coeur is preparing to launch a new chapter for its students, faculty and families. Beginning in January, it will commence construction on a series of major capital projects. “This is the biggest physical transformation Whitfield has undergone in more than 20 years,” head of school Chris Cunningham, Ph.D., says. “And there are even more new initiatives and programs to look forward to on the horizon. This is a special moment. As a school community, we’re dreaming big and making those dreams a reality.” Whitfield will be transformed through three facilities projects that will impact every part of campus life. The initiative was made possible thanks to the support of alumni. The SCHOOL received the largest philanthropic investment in its history: $5 million from the Rhodes family and $2 million from Jane Piper Gleason (’70). “The generosity of families and alumni have been essential to our success,” Cunningham notes. “Jane Piper Gleason has been supporting the school for decades, and the second generation of the Rhodes family is currently attending Whitfield, so they’re helping the community thrive as both parents and alumni.”

At the core of the campus revitalization is the development of The Rhodes Center for Academic Success. The new facility will include a library and research center, study zones, collaborative learning spaces, a new home for campus IT services, dedicated office and meeting spaces for the academic support team, and enhanced offices for the college counseling team. “The center will offer all the resources our students need to thrive as well as offering support as they prepare for their next steps,” Cunningham says. “The goal is to serve the whole range of student experiences, from supporting those who learn differently to accommodating those who desire more academic challenges.”

To further enhance the campus environment, Piper Courtyard also will be transformed from an exterior courtyard to an enclosed atrium for students to gather year-round. “Jane Piper Gleason originally envisioned the courtyard as a place for students to escape the stresses of the academic environment, and we’re thrilled she is continuing to support Whitfield in reimagining it,” Cunningham notes. “It’s going to be a beautiful place for students to spend time together and relax.” In addition to serving as a quiet space for students, the new Piper Courtyard also will provide the school with a beautiful event venue.

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The final piece of the enhancement plan is updated athletic facilities. The new multi-purpose space will meet the changing needs of students, including offering on-campus training space for the school’s rock climbing club and serving as a home for its champion wrestling program. The entire campus revitalization project is part of Whitfield’s dedication to providing students with a unique and personalized academic experience. “We don’t have a cookie cutter approach to education,” Cunningham says. “Whitfield is a place where students discover their individual strengths, talents and passions, and we empower them to grow into their best selves.” &

Yes—we’re known for kindness and community. But Whitfield is also where students launch businesses, produce podcasts, and explore the world.

It’s rigorous. It’s personal. It’s learning by doing.

• 100% of the Class of 2025 admitted to selective four-year colleges

• 36 team state titles | 199 individual medalists

• Advanced courses in every subject

st. louis

It’s not your everyday type of entertainment, nowhere near as sedate as golf or as physically violent as football. Check that. Football players have protective pads and wear helmets. One can’t imagine what it’s like for a driver being tossed around behind the wheel of a 12,000-pound truck with a name like Gravedigger or El Toro Loco, pictured, just two of the beastly vehicles that will be competing in a Monster Jam contest Jan. 17 and 18 at the Dome at America’s Center. The weekend features the world’s best drivers tearing up the dirt as they battle for the championship in three competitions: racing, skills and freestyle, where Monster Jam trucks appear to defy the laws of physics and do the impossible. Fans will be right in the middle of the action, helping to crown the event champ by scoring the drivers in real time based on their skills, stunts and saves. Of the 12 competitors, only the champ will get to compete in the world finals over July 4 weekend in Salt Lake City, Utah. Tickets are available through Ticketmaster at several tiers. One allows fans into the ‘pit party’ to high-five the drivers, get selfies with the trucks and mill around. Another, the ‘trackside experience,’ is about an hour before the command for (ladies and) gentlemen to start their engines. For more dirt on this uproarious event at the Dome, visit monsterjam.com.

OF THE TOWNS talk

kirkwood

You and your family can enjoy the benefits of the new Nine PBS Family Club at the Magic House in Kirkwood next month with free entry for up to six family members. Nine PBS Night is at the renowned kids museum for hands-on learning from 6-9 p.m. on Nov. 12. In the club, which anyone can join with a new or sustaining donation, supporters of public television become even more integral to a community that celebrates learning with PBS and PBS KIDS programming. Enjoy exploring the Magic House with other Nine PBS members, and while there be sure to stop by the PBS KIDS exhibit: Xavier Riddle and the Secret Museum. In this innovative interactive feature, families and young adventurers sneak through a hidden passage to the Secret Museum and unlock three different times in history. Members of the Nine PBS Family Club can enjoy exclusive perks such as:

• Nine PBS Passport, the app that unlocks extended access to favorite shows

• Invitations to exclusive Family Club events

• VIP meet and greet at a PBS KIDS character appearance each year

• Member tours of Nine PBS studios

• Early access to screenings and community events

As readers are probably aware, federal funding for public television has dried up, and the impact of these cuts has hit home. Nine PBS needs our help more than ever. Visit ninepbs.org.

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Soul On Fire is the locally filmed story of John O’Leary, who was playing with gasoline as a child and burned over more than 90% of his body when his house was nearly consumed by the flames. He clung to life and today is a motivational speaker, bestselling author and father of four—for a long time, doctors doubted he would survive. The faith-based film had its star-studded premiere on Oct. 2 at Powell Symphony Hall with O’Leary and his family in the audience, and it opened in theaters nationwide on Oct. 10. John Corbett portrays Denny O’Leary, John’s late father, and William H. Macy plays Hall-of-Fame sportscaster Jack Buck, who encouraged the boy, a rabid Cardinals fan, during his long recovery. Most of his fingers had to be amputated, and Buck was both one of his many cheerleaders and an ad hoc physical therapist who coached him on how to write again via handwritten notes to Redbirds players requesting autographed baseballs. He received dozens. Buck was a lifelong friend. Nowadays, demonstrating how far he has come from physical handicaps, on premiere night he played “Amazing Grace” on piano. Many of the people critical to helping him arrive where he is today, portrayed by big-name actors, are prominent in many scenes. To wit, his wife Beth (Masey McLain) is essential to O’Leary’s emotional and spiritual recovery. As his girlfriend, she’s in a bowling scene shot at Saratoga Lanes in Maplewood, and she’s essential to the story, which includes depictions of their wedding and growing family. A nurse at Mercy Hospital during physical therapy sessions spurred him to walk again. The scenes in the O’Leary home, which has been repaired but was unavailable, were shot in the one where his mother, Susan, still lives—all decked out in 1980s décor. One of John O’Leary’s motivational speeches in Las Vegas was filmed in Chaifetz Arena at SLU. If you leave the theater without wiping your eyes, have someone check your pulse. At least you’ll have enjoyed taking a trip around the StL

WHO IS THE REAL PERSON PORTRAYED BY DEVON FRANKLIN IN SOUL ON FIRE?

Who was Edward Teach?

Edward Teach (or Thatch, according to some records) was the birthname of Blackbeard, the notorious pirate who terrorized shipping in the American colonies and the Caribbean between 1716 and 1718 before being killed in battle. Blackbeard embodied both the brutality and mystique of the era.

dardenne prairie Becky Domyan

Nobody can be in two places at the same time. But try and tell that to Becky Domyan, senior VP and market manager at Audacy Radio in St. Louis—and executive director of St. Louis Fashion Fund (SLFF). It seems to make some sense for someone whose early life was kind of all over the place, yet intensely focused. For one thing, Domyan has lived in a city as large and diverse as Detroit, Michigan, and a community as rural as Washington, Missouri. Today, she starts at home in Dardenne Prairie with a daily commute downtown for her executive gig with KMOX, Y98 et al., plus myriad duties as they come up in the $7.7 billion fashion business segment throughout the metro. These 800-some entities range from international shoe giant Caleres and luxury retailer Neiman Marcus to budding fashion designers, many of whom are recipients of $5,000 SLFF scholarships. One responsibility that’s now off her plate is the Wichita, Kansas, market for Audacy, which she delegated to a member of her team after 2.5 years in the chief leadership role, as well. “You’re only as good as your team,” she says. She’s confident the stations there are in good hands. It’s apparent that Domyan keeps all the balls in the air, including golf balls here and there. But the role that’s the lead responsibility listed throughout her social media: Mom. Her son Cash, 10, knows it’s the short game that helps most in golf. Her older son Cole, 18, is a budding fashion model who’s creating a bespoke Batman costume for Halloween, leather breastplate and all. And they’re both self-starters. Apparently, the apple hasn’t fallen far from the tree. A principle that’s evolved since early in Domyan’s life, which

she honed at Mizzou and is a vital element in her leadership style today, is building community. “How do I make a difference where I can?” she notes. It’s essential for ‘The Voice of St. Louis.’ There are mutual connections throughout her twin responsibilities as a media exec in charge of six StL radio stations and serious fashionista: “We’re introducing the media world to the fashion world,’ she says. And there’s no reason the StL can’t reclaim its role as a fashion capital—for the lion’s share of the last century all along Washington Avenue and several adjacent blocks were manufacturers and design houses. “I love New York and L.A., but we have so much talent here, as well! And fashion is part of our arts community,” she points out. Susan Sherman, SLFF’s co-founder and current board chair, is an icon in our fashion ecosphere, but Domyan has hit the ground running since she was appointed executive director of SLFF on Jan. 1. “We have five new board members, and a sixth is in the pipeline,” Domyan says. Meanwhile, this year’s international designer to grace St. Louis in SLFF’s ‘Speaking of Fashion’ series is Wes Gordon, executive creative director of Carolina Herrera. Patron tickets may remain available for the benefit coming up Nov. 18. Visit saintlouisfashionfund.org. Previous honorees include Michael Kors, André Leon Talley, Iris Apfel, Karlie Kloss and Diane von Furstenberg, who offered Domyan a wee bit of fashion advice on the spot. “She suggested a better way to tie my dress!” laughs Domyan. For a glance at Domyan’s Instagram feed, which features fashion, Audacy and family pride, click on @beckydomyan. &

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STL STORIES

Phil & Jenny Brown

A FAMILY TRAGEDY LED THE BROWNS to a profound realization: Life is short, don’t waste it. That clarity sparked a bold response. With time suddenly feeling more precious than ever, they decided to do something big and unforgettable. They downsized their home in St. Louis, bought a boat and set out to sail the Great Loop. What is the Great Loop? It’s a 6,000-mile continuous waterway route that circumnavigates the eastern United States via rivers, lakes, canals and the Atlantic Intracoastal Waterway. It can take anywhere from six months to a year on average.

Many people tackle the Great Loop after decades on the water. While the Browns’ boating background was modest, that didn’t stop them. Phil Brown, now their captain, retired early after decades in corporate America. The family knew this was the time to chase their dream of adventure and connection. With determination, optimism and a slight learning curve, they dove head-first into the boating lifestyle knowing that, soon enough, time would pull them in different directions.

For Jenny Brown, mom and now first mate of their 55-foot home-on-water, the journey was about more than sightseeing. She saw it as a chance to instill life lessons of self-discipline, resilience and curiosity into their daughters. To complement the hands-on education of navigating locks and tides, the girls were each encouraged to start their own creative projects. Together, they launched social media channels to share their journey with friends, family and a growing community of fellow dreamers and travelers.

The family’s main YouTube channel, @saltysideeye, named after their boat, is curated by Jenny and offers an honest, often humorous look at life on the Loop. From engine failures to dolphin sightings, the Browns share it all with refreshing candor. Other episodes explore everything from daily routines to creative hobbies onboard. It’s part travelogue, part digital scrapbook and entirely unique.

Living aboard a boat as a family is not without its challenges. Space is tight, and weather can be unpredictable. The Browns have found that those challenges are part of the reward. They’ve traded convenience for closeness and, in doing so, discovered a different pace of life—one where sunrises are savored, teamwork is non-negotiable, and each day brings something new.

Their Great Loop journey is far from over, but already it’s clear that the Browns are navigating more than just waterways. They’re charting a course toward deeper connection, lifelong memories and a shared story no one will forget. &

master of horror

St. Louis County Library Foundation’s Favorite Author Series and The Novel Neighbor will be bringing internationally bestselling horror author Joe Hill to the StL. Hill will discuss his latest novel, King Sorrow, on Oct. 22 at the Clark Family Branch. Tickets can be purchased through Eventbrite.

stl eats

Downtown St. Louis Restaurant week is returning Oct. 20-26. Throughout the week, restaurants and bars will offer limited-time menus and deals, encouraging visitors to explore the flavors of locally owned favorites and nationally recognized destinations. For a list of participating restaurants, visit dinedowntownstl.com.

enter the dragon

Saint Louis Zoo has welcomed a 6-year-old male Komodo dragon named Charlie, the first resident of its new Komodo dragon habitat at the Charles H. Hoessle Herpetarium. Charlie will be the first of his species to live at the zoo in more than 12 years.

St. Louis travelers have something exciting to look forward to in 2026. British Airways has announced it will offer a new direct flight from Lambert International to London Heathrow Airport. Service will begin April 19.

The hit Broadway adaptation of The Notebook is opening Nov. 4 at The Fabulous Fox Theatre. The production has an exciting hometown connection: Producer Charlie Deutsch is a St. Louisan and John Burroughs School alum. A special meet-and-greet with Deutsch on opening night will benefit the Alzheimer’s Association of Greater Missouri, Memory Care Home Solutions and The Caregiver Club. For more information, visit mchs.givecloud.co/celebrate-life-and-love.

THE VELVET HAMMER

Q: After working remotely for several years, my company has requested we return to the office and be dressed accordingly. Frankly, my “uniform” over the last few years has consisted of flip flops, sweats and PJs, and now, I’m due for a wardrobe update. Any advice to refresh my look for today’s workplace attire?

A: Since the pandemic seems to have thrown your fashion sense off balance with what to wear at the office, your best bet is to simply ask your immediate supervisor what the company considers “appropriate” work attire. That said, I think you can safely conclude to store your flip flops, sweats and PJs back where they belong in your closet for the time being.

However, if your supervisor doesn’t give any direction, here are a few fashion workplace guidelines for your consideration:

First, you know better than anyone your company’s climate and its culture prior to the pandemic, and erring on the conservative side will probably hold you in good stead until you can get a vibe check when you return to the office.

Before you hit the mall, and especially for those who are new employees, pay attention to how others dress at the office. Again, don’t be afraid to get clarity on not only appropriate attire but if there are issues at the office that may require a sweater or light jacket as many workspace temperatures are chilly.

Keep in mind, dressing for work is an opportunity to embrace your personal style as well as establish a fashion signature within reason. Your attire can help you feel confident about yourself and can make an important first impression with new colleagues and clients.

Most importantly, dress for the job you have. Although your personal signature is important, there’s a difference between expressing yourself and sabotaging your career. There’s a way to express yourself without breaking the rules. But when in doubt, dial it down.

A few other considerations if you need to supplement your current wardrobe. Looking sharp doesn’t have to cost an arm and leg. An older outfit may need alterations and can look top of the line. For those who are getting back into your leather shoes, make sure they are in good repair and polish them for a high finish look.

Ultimately, it’s not just about your clothes. It’s how you show up, speak, behave, as well as the way you dress—it’s the entire package that sends a message as to who you are. Your attire should enhance your professional image and not distract from your job skills that were the main reason for your being hired.

Bottom line: A company requires different levels of formality depending on the job role and level of client contact involved. Make sure the first thing your colleagues or clients notice isn’t your outfit, but your impact. &

PARENT TRAP

LISTENING CONTEXT

IN THE 19TH CENTURY, a zoo owner bought an elephant from India. After just a few days, the docile elephant’s personality changed, becoming more agitated and aggressive. It charged towards kids who approached his cage and tried to kill one of his handlers. The owner decided he needed to put it down before someone got killed. To make back his investment, he opted for a public execution, charging money.

Right before the elephant was to be shot, a small man wearing a brown derby walked through the crowd and asked for two minutes with the beast. The zoo owner had the man sign a liability waiver. As the man entered the cage, a hush fell over the crowd. The elephant trumpeted and reared at the man, but he began to speak softly in foreign language. The gentleman stroked the animal’s trunk, and all aggression drained from it. Everyone demanded to know how he had calmed the beast. “He’s an Indian elephant, and none of you spoke his language. He’s not angry, just homesick.” The gentleman left. The zoo owner looked at the waiver to see that it was signed Rudyard Kipling.

Like the elephant, every child has their own language that speaks to their hearts and minds. Each of us has a context whereby we feel safer to open up and be vulnerable and forthcoming. Many children, especially boys, prefer a more shoulder-to-shoulder approach, such as when you are driving in the car, taking a walk or sitting in the stands at a sporting event. I’ve counseled many girls who express themselves more clearly and deeply through writing because it gives them time to think, reflect and process their thoughts and feelings. They can write down what they want to share, then edit and rewrite it until it says exactly what they intend. This feels less intimidating than coming up with their thoughts in a face-to-face interaction, especially if they feel intimidated by a parent.

For some teenagers, instead of asking direct questions about their experience or opinions, you could first ask how their peers are thinking about this issue. Research shows that helping teens step outside of themselves and observe their situation from a third-person perspective helps reduce overall stress, allowing them to think more rationally about a challenge they are facing. A good time for heart-to-heart conversations is during tuck-ins; it’s dark, and kids are often more settled at the end of their day.

Finally, sharing your stories about similar experiences you had at their age allows kids to see that you really can understand what they are going through. Remember that kids weren’t around to see you during your awkward phases when you felt insecure and had lots of self-doubt and issues with friends. Sharing your own past experiences makes you more real and able to relate. I want each of you to remain an influence in the lives of your children throughout the teen years and beyond. Learning to respect the unique contexts that make your child feel more safe to be open to sharing will go a long way towards creating this type of relationship.

HEARD IN THE HALLS

◀ keysor elementary school

Students and staff kicked off Breast Cancer Awareness

Month by wearing pink and forming a human ribbon. The visual tribute was done in honor of IDEA Lab teacher

Traci Jansen, who is currently undergoing treatment for breast cancer. The school also launched its grade-level Coins for Care drive, a friendly competition where students collect donations to benefit St. Luke’s Women’s Healthcare Center.

ladue school district ◀

Congratulations to the district! For the third year in a row, it was named the top school district in Missouri in Niche’s 2025 Best School Districts in America rankings. It also ranked 14th in the nation. “It’s the result of dedicated students, amazing teachers and staff, strong parent partnerships and the unwavering support of our entire community— all working together for the success of our kids,” superintendent Jim Wipke, Ed.D., says.

▶ whitfield school ◀

special section

standout SCHOOLS

▶ robinson elementary school ◀

Principal La’Kendra Garrett, Ed.D., was recognized by her alma mater, South Carolina State University, as one of its Forty Under 40 Alumni Achievement Award honorees. The program highlights outstanding graduates who represent excellence in a variety of fields.

Student Jason Chien has become a registered iris hybridizer with the American Iris Society. Chien has cultivated his own named registered iris, Chili Cheese Dip. He began growing irises when he was only 8 years old and has won many honors, including the Stanley Goodman Award and the international Clarke Cosgrove Memorial Award for Youth Achievement. Chili Cheese Dip will be displayed at the 2027 American Iris Society national convention in Oklahoma and introduced to the market later that year.

st. louis language

immersion school ▶

The school was recently awarded the prestigious LabelFrancEducation by the French Ministry of Foreign Affairs. The honor is given to exceptional dual-language French immersion programs, and less than 100 schools in the U.S. have the designation. The LabelFrancEducation also provides schools with curriculum and professional learning support.

OPEN HOUSE SCHOOL LISTING

A CLOSER LOOK

THE COLLEGE SCHOOL

▶ Fall Open House: Nov. 15, 9-10:30 a.m.

▶ Early Childhood Open House: Jan. 24, 9-10:30 a.m.

▶ Middle School Open House: Feb. 24, 9-10:30 a.m. Register online.

7825 Big Bend Blvd. 314.962.9355 thecollegeschool.org

COMMUNITY SCHOOL

▶ Open Houses: Nov. 8, 9-11:30 a.m. Nov. 18, 9:15-10:45 a.m. Jan. 14, 9:15-10:45 a.m. Jan. 27, 9:15-10:45 a.m.

900 Lay Road 314.991.0005 communityschool.com

FORSYTH SCHOOL

▶ All-School Open House: Oct. 26, 3-5 p.m.

▶ Early Childhood Open House: Jan. 26, 9:30-11:30 a.m.

Advance registration required.

6235 Wydown Blvd. 314.726.4542 forsythschool.org

JOHN BURROUGHS SCHOOL

▶ A Closer Look for Parents and Guardians: Dec. 2 and Jan. 8, 6 p.m.

755 S. Price Road 314.993.4040 jburroughs.org

COR JESU

ACADEMY

▶ Open House: Oct. 26, 11 a.m.-3 p.m. 10230 Gravois Road 314.842.1546 corjesu.org

NEW CITY SCHOOL

▶ Open Houses: Oct. 21, 9 a.m. Nov. 8, 10 a.m. Dec. 13, 9:30 a.m.

Online registration required.

5209 Waterman Blvd. 314.361.6411 newcityschool.org

ROSSMAN SCHOOL

▶ Open Houses: Nov. 18, 8:30-10:30 a.m Jan. 15, 8:30-10:30 a.m 12660 Conway Road 314.434.5877 rossmanschool.org

SAINT LOUIS PRIORY SCHOOL

▶ Open House: Oct. 19, noon-3 p.m.

500 S. Mason Road 314.434.3690 priory.org

ST. JOHN VIANNEY HIGH SCHOOL

▶ Open House: Oct. 26, 11:30 a.m.- 4 p.m.

Registration is not required.

1311 S. Kirkwood Road 314.965.4853, ext.134 vianney.com

THE WHITFIELD SCHOOL

▶ Open House: Oct. 19, 1-4 p.m.

Registration required.

175 S. Mason Road 314.434.5141 whitfieldschool.org/admissions/open-house

THE WILSON SCHOOL

▶ Fall Open House: Oct. 25, 9 a.m.

▶ Winter Open House: Jan. 15, 9 a.m.

Registration encouraged.

400 De Mun Ave. 314.725.4999 wilsonschool.com

Know New City Tuesday, October 21, 9:00 AM - 10:30 AM

Saturday, November 8, starting at 10:00 AM

Sneak Peek Saturday, December 13, 9:30 AM - 11:30 AM

MESSY M M LIFE

FALL FUN IN FESTUS

WHEN YOU’VE LIVED IN THE STL AS LONG AS I HAVE, you find yourself going to all of the same places every season, and of course, I love them. But every once in a while, when you wander outside of your routine bubble, you discover a really amazing secret spot—and of course, I have to share it with all my favorite moms. My cousin invited me to meet her at Austin Farms to go pumpkin picking in Festus. I’m no stranger to Festus since my husband has lots of family there, and I know it’s a wonderful place—but I didn’t know they were hiding a really great pumpkin patch.

I decided it would be worth a little adventure, and I can say I was so pleasantly surprised! About 10 minutes from the Pevely exit is the quaint little Austin Farms. My kids squealed as we drove up to rows of colorful pumpkins—but more importantly to them—bounce houses! We parked, and I expected to pay an entry fee for the fun activities before finding our pumpkins, but my cousin quickly told me all these activities are free. Well, that was a fun surprise, especially these days when everything is more expensive than ever.

The bounce houses were manageable for ages 3–12, and my kids had a ball. There were no crowds, as a cute little field trip crew was on their way out at noon. They had a barrel train that went all the way around a giant pasture, a water table and the cutest 1800s corn-shucking station where kids spun the wheel to fill a bucket of corn to jump in. I was personally most excited about the beautiful pumpkin patch with the most gigantic pumpkins I’ve seen in a long time. We took the tractor out to the field, were handed our own set of cutters and set out on our hunt.

It was probably the most authentic pumpkin-picking experience I’ve had in a while. I got three pretty decent-sized pumpkins and left paying $26. That was before I added fresh-made sourdough from the farmer’s wife, farm-fresh eggs, local maple syrup, homemade jelly, drinks and popcorn. My kids were ecstatic and so were my cousin and I. If you are looking for a low-key place to have a fall adventure this weekend, I highly recommend a stop at Austin Farms. I asked if they were OK with me sharing their spot with all of you, and they were excited. The owners could not have been sweeter. They did say Saturdays get crowded as

If you’re reading this article too late to go pumpkin picking, just know that Austin Farms is open for local produce in other seasons—and it is totally worth a trip out. There isn’t an official website, but you can find them on Facebook under Austin Farms in Festus, Missouri. Their Google reviews are coming in at all five

STL Spooky

From glowing jack-o-lanterns and spooky skeletons to creepy stories and sweet treats, Halloween brings many hair-raising events to the STL that are fun for the whole family. We’re taking a closer look at two activities that are sure to be a scary good time.

Fright at the Museum

Every October since 2021, the City Museum has transformed from top to bottom to celebrate the spooky season. The entire museum campus is decked out with decorations and exhibits, including jack’o’lanterns, skeletons and unique collections, such as an assortment of taxidermied mice dressed as horror movie icons. “We’re not a haunted house—you don’t have to worry about jump scares,” explains Katy Enrique, director of sales and marketing. “We wanted to put a unique City Museum spin on a Halloween event. Fright at the Museum is a celebration of oddities and curiosities.” The event also includes live entertainment. The Theatre of the Oddities presents amazing acts, such as fire breathers, acrobats and more. Younger guests can enjoy Not-So-Spooky Storytelling with a friendly witch spinning tales. Circus Harmony also transforms its performances for the Halloween season, becoming the Happy Haunted Harmony Circus. New for 2025, small groups will get to experience live seances on Friday and Saturday evenings. “We try to keep everything interesting, interactive and a little creepy,” Enirique says. “It’s a really great event for kiddos with plenty for adults to enjoy as well.” Fright at the Museum runs through Oct. 26. For more information visit, citymuseum.org.

Jack’s Lighted Trail

This fall, Eckert’s Farm in Belleville, Illinois, welcomed a new nighttime Halloween attraction. Jack’s Lighted Trail immerses visitors in glowing displays of pumpkin sculptures, thematic photo opportunities and festive surprises. President Chris Eckert explains that the experience was conceived of as an alternative to hayride attractions.

“We had great success with our haunted hayride at our Millstadt location, and we wanted to bring a different evening Halloween experience to Belleville,” he says. “Jack’s Lighted Trail is immersive, it’s magical, and it brings a whole new energy to the farm after dark.” Eckert explains that the experience is a fall twist on traditional Christmas light displays. Guests first take a wagon ride to the half-mile trail. After arriving, they can explore 13 unique scenes themed to different things, such as pirates, fairy tales, monsters, a haunted mine and more. The trail is a fitting addition to all of Eckert’s Farm’s other autumn festivities. “We have pick-your-own apples and pumpkins, and every weekend we host Ecktoberfest with all sorts of live entertainment and food for people to enjoy,” Eckert says. “Fall is a great time to spend time on the farm.”

Jack’s Lighted Trail runs through Nov. 1, and advanced tickets are recommended. For more information, visit jackslightedtrail.com.

Photo courtesy of Eckert’s Farm
Photo courtesy of City Museum

TYPES OF BREAST CANCER

DUCTAL CARCINOMA IN SITU:

This is a noninvasive or pre-invasive form of breast cancer. Carcinoma refers to tumors that form in the epithelial cells of organs and tissue. Tumors that form in the breast are more specifically referred to as adenocarcinoma, meaning they start in the milk ducts or the lobules, glands that make milk. In situ refers to cancer that has not spread from the duct to surrounding breast tissue.

INVASIVE DUCTAL CARCINOMA:

This term refers to cancer that has spread to surrounding breast tissue. According to the American Cancer Society, around 70% to 80% of breast cancers are invasive ductal carcinoma. Some invasive forms of cancer have different characteristics or develop differently. These are often more rare but can be more serious as well.

TRIPLE NEGATIVE BREAST CANCER:

Accounting for around 15% of all breast cancers, this aggressive form gets its name because the cancer cells don’t have estrogen or progesterone receptors and don’t make the protein HER2, so they test negative for all three of these

Think Pink BREAST CANCER

AWARENESS MONTH

While October brings with it the reds, yellows and oranges of autumn, it’s also a time to think pink for Breast Cancer Awareness Month. One in eight women will be diagnosed with the disease, meaning you’ll likely know someone touched by it—whether it’s yourself, a friend or a relative.

BREAKING DOWN SCREENINGS

The most reliable way to find breast cancer early is regular screening. The age you should begin annual mammograms depends on your risk for developing the disease—risk factors include family history, race and lifestyle factors, such as drinking, weight and not having children. Women who are high-risk should begin annual mammograms at 30, so a breast cancer risk assessment should be completed before then.

THE AMERICAN CANCER SOCIETY’S RECOMMENDATIONS FOR MAMMOGRAMS FOR WOMEN OF AVERAGE RISK ARE:

▪ Between 40 and 54 screen with a mammogram every year.

▪ Women 55 and older can switch to every other year or continue with annual mammograms.

▪ Women should continue screening as long as they are in good health and expected to live at least 10 more years.

THERE ARE THREE COMMON TYPES OF IMAGING DONE TO DETECT BREAST CANCER.

MAMMOGRAM: This is a low dose x-ray of the breast that can detect changes years before physical symptoms develop.

BREAST MRI: The process uses radio waves and strong magnets to make detailed images of the inside of the breast. For certain high-risk patients, an annual MRI is recommended alongside a mammogram. While it can detect more cancers than a mammogram, it also is more likely to result in a false positive.

BREAST ULTRASOUND: These images are formed using sound waves and their echoes. It is not typically used for routine screening, but it can be used to look at lumps that can be felt but not seen on a mammogram. Unlike a mammogram, it can differentiate between solid masses and cysts or other fluid-filled masses, which are unlikely to be cancerous. It also is useful for screening women with dense breast tissue.

CAUSES & RISK FACTORS

The cause of breast cancer is unknown; however, there are known risk factors. Some of these factors cannot be changed, such as being born female, getting older, race and ethnicity, family history and certain gene mutations. There also are lifestyle factors associated with a greater risk of developing breast cancer that can be modified. These include:

DRINKING ALCOHOL

Alcohol increases the risk of breast cancer, even when consumed in small amounts. The American Cancer Society says it’s best not to drink at all, but those who choose to, should limit themselves to one drink a day, meaning 12 ounces of beer, five ounces of wine, or one and a half ounces of hard liquor.

BEING OVERWEIGHT

Weight gain is associated with a higher risk of breast cancer, especially in women who have experienced menopause.

STAYING ACTIVE Studies have shown that regular moderate to vigorous activity can lower breast cancer risk. The American Cancer Society recommends adults get 150 to 300 minutes of moderate activity or 75 to 150 minutes of vigorous activity a week.

USING BIRTH CONTROL

Some studies have shown that birth control methods that use hormones may increase breast cancer risk. For oral contraceptives’, there is slightly higher risk, but it goes back to normal within 10 years of stopping usage.

➤ New lump in the breast or armpit

➤ Thickening or swelling of part of the breast

➤ Irritation or dimpling of skin

➤ Changes in the size or the shape

➤ Redness or flaky skin in the nipple area

➤ Pain around the nipple or in other areas

➤ Discharge other than breast milk, including blood

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SAVING TAXPAYER MONEY

Mercy is making strides in affordable, sustainable health care. It ranked in the top five across the country and third for its size for Centers for Medicare & Medicaid Service’s (CMS) latest Accountable Care Organization (ACO) results. CMS tracks more than 30 quality measures focused on care coordination, patient safety, appropriate use of preventive health services, improved care for at-risk populations, and patient and caregiver experience of care. It was found that Mercy’s care saved taxpayers $103 million. “We put the patient first in all we do with the goal of keeping patients happy, healthy and out of the hospital as much as possible,” says Dr. Gavin Helton, Mercy president of primary care.

STOPPING DEADLY INFECTIONS

Rotavirus contributes to more than 128,500 deaths per year globally. It impacts infants and young children, causing severe dehydrating diarrhea. Researchers at Washington University School of Medicine have identified a key enzyme, fatty acid 2-hydroxylase (FA2H), that enables rotavirus to infect cells. The team hopes the discovery will lead to new therapeutic interventions for the virus and other pathogens that rely on the infection mechanism. “Not all kids receive the vaccine, and this virus is very infectious,” says Siyuan Ding, Ph.D., associate professor of molecular microbiology. “Once a child has the virus, there’s currently no treatment; we can only manage the symptoms.”

A WOMEN’S WELLNESS EXPERIENCE

NATIONAL RECOGNITION

U.S. News & World Report’s 2025-2026 Best Children’s Hospitals rankings have been released, and local hospitals have made a strong showing. SSM Health Cardinal Glennon Children’s Hospital ranked in four specialties nationally, earning its highest in pediatric gastroenterology and GI surgery at No. 21. St. Louis Children’s Hospital was named among the top 50 hospitals in the country in 11 categories, making the top 20 in five of them. Shriners Children’s was also included, ranking No. 21 for pediatric orthopedics. “This designation is a testament to the dedication, compassion and excellence each care team professional brings to our patients every single day,” says Mark Venable, hospital administrator of Shriners Children’s St. Louis.

A BETTER OVERDOSE ANTIDOTE

Researchers at Washington University School of Medicine received $5 million from the National Institutes of Health to develop a way to more effectively counter drug overdoses. “As new, more-potent opioids take to the streets, reviving people from overdose is becoming more challenging,” says Susruta Majumdar, Ph.D., professor of anesthesiology and principal investigator on the new project. “This funding support from NIH is critical for expediting the drug development timeline, making it possible to bring new treatments to people within five years.” The team is working to develop a combination treatment that makes naloxone, also known as Narcan, more effective. Currently, the drug effectively restores normal breathing during an overdose, but the effects are short-lived and often require multiple doses.

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• Wellness chats: Hear from experts on topics like perimenopause and menopause, genetics and cancer, osteoporosis and bone density, and heart health.

• Health demos: Learn mobility exercises and catch a healthy cooking demo while savoring complimentary seasonal beverages and free chair massages.

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COVER STORY

STRONGER TOGETHER

GLENNON CARD

WHEN CHERI AND TERRION CROSS MARRIED, they brought two families together, and the couple hoped to bring more children into their happy blended home. Following an uncomplicated pregnancy and delivery, they were thrilled to welcome a new baby girl, Makayla, in 2017. That joy, however, was tempered by a phone call when their daughter was just six weeks old. Makayla’s newborn screen revealed that she had Sickle Cell Disease (SCD), an inherited red blood cell disorder. “It was like time stopped for a minute,” Cheri recalls. “I had so many questions. What did we need to do next? Was she going to be OK?”

Makayla’s pediatrician referred the Crosses to the The Costas Center at SSM Health Cardinal Glennon Children’s Hospital to meet with a hematologist. “That first appointment was informative and overwhelming at the same time,” Cheri says. “We discussed her treatment protocol and everything we would need to be watching for at home.” SCD is a disease that worsens over time. Symptoms and complications are different for each person and can range from mild to acute. Makayla was diagnosed with Type SS, which is also known as sickle cell anemia. It is the most severe form of the disease.

In SCD, hemoglobin is abnormal. Instead of round, it forms a C-shape, similar to a sickle. These cells can clog blood vessels and die early, resulting in pain, infection and stroke. Since her diagnosis, Makayla has dealt with many illnesses, including flu, pneumonia, pain crises and acute chest syndrome, a life-threatening complication that occurs when sickle cells block blood flow to the lungs. SSM Health Cardinal Glennon has been with the family every step of the way. “If I’m worried about something, I can reach out, and The Costas Center will immediately respond, day or night,” Cheri notes.

For the Cross family, the staff at the hospital helps make overwhelming and frightening situations more manageable. Not only are they proactive in caring for

Makayla, they treat everyone with kindness and understanding. “Our journey with the hospital has been simply amazing,” Cheri says. “I call Makayla a frequent flyer because she’s there so often. From the residents and doctors to the nurses and security, everyone is so welcoming, kind and caring. SCD isn’t a disease where you wake up one day and are OK. Every morning is a question of how Makayla is feeling, but I know we have a great team in our corner.”

SSM Health Cardinal Glennon relies on the support of the community to continue serving patients like the Cross family. One of the hospital’s major fundraising initiatives is the Glennon Card, a discount shopping program that allows St. Louisans to directly support its young patients. Each fall, the purchase of a $60 card unlocks a 20% discount at hundreds of retailers, eateries and attractions, and 100% of card sales benefit the hospital. The program is organized by the hospital’s foundation and the Glennon Guild, a women’s auxiliary that supports the hospital.

program connects so many businesses while encouraging local shopping.”

This year’s shopping period is Oct. 17 to 26, and more than 340 businesses are participating. Among them is Story Seven, a locally-owned gift and home boutique in Webster Groves. For co-owner Sarah Jozwiakowski, the program is a natural fit. She began her career as a nurse at SSM Health Cardinal Glennon, and her daughter is currently in clinicals to become a nurse practitioner at the hospital. “Cardinal Glennon has a special place in my heart,” she notes. “I also love how the Glennon Card

Story Seven has been a part of the Glennon Card initiative since the store opened its doors in 2019. The shopping period is a perfect time for customers to get a jump start on holiday purchases while taking advantage of the discount. Co-owner Melanie Bennett is impressed by the program the Glennon Guild has developed. “It’s unlike any fundraiser I’ve seen before—the Glennon Card is a very special thing for St. Louis,” she says. “It brings us together collectively to support an amazing cause, which always makes more of an impact. As St. Louisans, we are so fortunate to have Cardinal Glennon right in our backyard.”

For Cheri, the Glennon Card is an excellent example of the difference that community support can make. Living in Illinois, she was not aware of the program until Makayla needed SSM Health Cardinal Glennon’s services, but she’s grateful that her family now can help promote the initiative. “We’re happy to spread the news,” she says. “Everyone can support excellent health care for children, and that’s what the hospital provides. I always tell families who are struggling with health concerns, just

GLENNON KID MAKAYLA WITH HER SISTER
GLENNON KID MAKAYLA
PHOTOS COURTESY OF SSM HEALTH CARDINAL GLENNON CHILDREN’S FOUNDATION

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FROM THE HOMEOWNER »

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Carondelet Plaza is a shining example of urban living. Rising above downtown Clayton, it offers some of the finest architecture and services in St. Louis— not to mention easy access to amazing shops and restaurants. This full-floor penthouse showcases the city at its finest, and it offers all of the features and amenities expected of luxury living.

What have you enjoyed about the Plaza?

The building’s services are great. One of the biggest benefits was leaving for vacation without having to worry about maintenance—we could just close the door and walk away. There’s 24-hour assistance at the front desk. The valet is helpful when bringing things from your car to the unit. The Plaza is just a very pleasant and welcoming place to live.

What are some standout features of the apartment?

It’s a full-floor apartment with verandas on each side. It has 360-degree views of St. Louis. You can just sit outside and take it all in whenever you want. The interior was completely renovated five years ago. The unit originally had more of a traditional design with a lot of dark wood, and we transformed it into something more contemporary and bright.

Do you have a favorite room?

The living room. We used it to display our contemporary art collection—it was like being in a beautiful gallery. It’s also where we would have Christmas with our family. It’s just a very pleasant space.

Did you entertain often?

We hosted events for a variety of organizations, like the symphony, opera and art museum. There’s a full butler’s pantry, so it’s easy to bring in caterers or anything you need for parties. The apartment easily entertains around 40 people at one time.

What would you like the next homeowners to know about the apartment?

This is easy living at its best. You get all of the perks of living on a single floor in a building with attentive staff. Plus, you don’t have to sacrifice having outdoor space. The verandas are great for relaxing, and

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Walk into and you’ll begin to experience kitchens and bathrooms differently. For 10 years, we have brought the unexpected to our region, such as our newest partner, Devon & Devon, specializing in plumbing, tile, wall coverings, and furnishings. Unique brands and unlimited creative possibilities continue to make us the number one choice for designers, builders, contractors, and homeowners. What you thought about fixtures is fictional; visit us to immerse yourself in originality.

Walk into and you will be immediately inspired. Our ever-evolving selection of plumbing fixtures & fittings will heighten your senses and spark your creativity. We are St. Louis’ top choice for designers, builders, contractors, and their clients due to our talented showroom staff and best in class service. Visit immerse and allow our selection, environment, and experience to bring your next project to fruition. Immerse yourself in Originality.

THE HALLMARKS OF GOTHIC DESIGN

Gothic interior design pulls inspiration from a variety of different periods and places. There’s the Gothic architecture of Medieval Europe from the late 12th to the 16th century, which was defined by signature elements like pointed arches, gargoyles and stained glass. The Victorian period introduced Gothic literature, focusing on an aesthetic of fear and haunting. This manifests in design through a dark color palette with 19th and early 20th century decor, such as patterned wallpaper and intricate wood furniture.

▪ A moody color palette with black and deep jewel tones

▪ Ornate and antique furniture

▪ Luxurious fabrics like velvet, satin, silk and damask.

▪ Architectural elements like pointed arches, vaulted ceilings and stained glass

▪ Dark woods

▪ Wrought iron details

The word “gothic” might bring to mind dark and stormy nights, haunted manors and things that go bump in the night. However, when it comes to interior design, the style is a little less spooky and ooky and a little more dramatic and elegant.

HOW TO INTRODUCE IT IN YOUR HOME

Worried about turning your home into the Addams Family manor? Don’t feel daunted by this daring style, especially if a minimalist aesthetic is not for you. You can create a space that feels livable and inviting while still bringing an atmosphere of glamor and elegance.

Embrace moody colors. Deep rich hues dominate the gothic style. The impact should be a feeling of opulence and grandeur, not something drab and dingy.

Don’t be afraid to go ornate. Elements like intricate wallpaper, carved details, metalwork, candelabras and tapestries add a sense of grandeur while referencing the historical inspiration of gothic design.

Layer texture. Mix rich fabrics through curtains, pillows and upholstered furniture to create an opulent feel.

Play with light and shadow. Dramatic lighting paired with heavy drapery and a dark color palette helps create a luxurious ambiance.

Opt for vintage pieces. To truly capture the gothic feeling, incorporate at least one piece of antique furniture, such as a carved wooden armoire, elaborate table or high-backed upholstered chair. &

HOME TOUR | HOEDEMAKER PFEIFFER’S HILLSIDE SANCTUARY

HOEDEMAKER PFEIFFER’S HILLSIDE SANCTUARY is a beautiful seaside home in the rugged and mountainous Pacific Northwest. Accented with a ton of stone, this house fits in perfectly with its surroundings, offering incredible indoor and outdoor views. The owner of the home wanted a personal retreat, and the designers definitely delivered.

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statement entry

This entry definitely sets the scene of this home with the impressive use of stone covering the walls. Stone was an element frequently used in this project to better make it seem like the home grew from its surroundings, and boy, does it make a statement

the living room

Continuing the use of stone into the living room, the fireplace offers a beautiful anchor to the room. Reaching all the way to the ceiling, it separates the home's public and private rooms. The furniture’s simple and earthy tones ease the transition to the beautiful outdoor views from the glass doors leading to the back patio.

kitchen

& dining

This kitchen is very casual, offering an island that doubles as seating. What we absolutely love is the window seat with beautiful natural light, perfect for a morning cup of coffee with a view. The kitchen’s warm wood cabinets and grey accents make it seem earthy and natural, yet sleek and clean. The abundance of natural light makes you, again, feel like you are in nature, while still being inside the home. We love how fresh it feels as it seamlessly blends together.

master bedroom

The beautiful views don’t stop with the living room and kitchen, they continue on to the master bedroom. The room’s cool palette continues the trend of feeling like you are in the outdoors. With its double door entry to the back patio, we can’t imagine a more dreamy way to wake up in the morning!

the bathroom

The bathroom is both dark and mysterious, reflecting the unknown of the rugged landscape. Its dark tile and sleek white tub contrast beautifully to form a sophisticated and more modern style. We love the large scale tiles that cover the walls, matching the dramatic effect of this room. &

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LANDSCAPING: RANDY ALLWORTH PHOTOS: KEVIN SCOTT

A Room for All Seasons

ho wouldn’t want to enjoy their outdoor living spaces for longer? With a multi-season room, you can create the perfect spot to take in the view and relax—and maybe even watch the big game. T&S spoke with Matt Courtney of Broadview Screen Company and John Howell of Two Rivers Stone Boutique to learn more about how homeowners are elevating their indoor-outdoor living spaces.

Know your goals. When transitioning a space to a multi-season room, Courtney suggests first thinking about what you want to use it for. Are you looking for a room to simply enjoy your outdoor spaces when the weather gets cooler, or are you wanting to create an outdoor living room with a TV, fireplace and other elements? “Most people want unobstructed views of their yards, pools and gardens,” he says. “However, a lot of others are looking for a cozy place to watch football games during the fall.” Knowing your goals for the space will help determine what you need to bring to the room.

Think about the challenges. “In the summer, bugs and glare are the biggest concerns, but in the fall and winter, heating the space is going to be the focus,” Courtney says. He explains that Broadview offers three main ways to screen multi-season rooms.

Standard fixed screens: They can be customized through the addition of doors and integrated railings, but typically, these will offer the least protection. While they help with bugs and maintaining views, fixed screens do not address the weather as effectively and won’t keep out rain or cold.

Eze-Breeze: This vertical enclosure system features clear vinyl panels that are custom-made for porches, patios, decks and more. A three-season system, it is designed to keep out bugs, pollen, snow and rain while still allowing for enjoyment of the outdoors.

Phantom retractable screens: A motorized screen system, it can be fitted with different materials to address different issues, such as insect mesh, solar protection and clear vinyl. “A popular trend is to have two rollers,” Courtney adds. “One has insect mesh, so you can enjoy the

summer weather without worrying about bugs. The other can be clear vinyl, so the room stays warm in the fall and winter. You can have the best of both.”

No stone unturned. “Natural stone is a great addition to a multi-season space because it’s super durable and holds up really well in all kinds of weather,” Howell says. “It also adds a natural, timeless look that works year-round—cool and fresh in summer and cozy, especially with exterior lighting and heat sources, during the cooler months. Plus, it’s low maintenance, which is always a bonus!” He adds that stone is commonly used in outdoor spaces for things like water features, outdoor kitchens and fire pits. It can make a great addition to multi-season rooms through fireplace frames, furniture and more.

Don’t take granite for granted. Not all natural stone is going to work as well in outdoor spaces as others. Howell suggests denser stones like granite, quartzite and slate. “They are durable and handle temperature changes, moisture and wear really well,” he explains. “Softer stones like marble or limestone can weather more easily. It’s not necessarily a deal-breaker, but they might need a bit more care or sealing.”

Consider color. When it comes to a color palette for your outdoor spaces, Courtney says black, white and dark brown as most popular for screen frames. Howell says he’s seeing homeowners leaning into a natural, organic look with a focus on warm, earthy tones, like soft beige, sandy cream and warmer grays. “Finishes like honed and leathered stone are really popular right now for adding depth and character, especially on walls and fire features,” he adds. &

PHOTOS COURTESY OF BROADVIEW SCREEN COMPANY

MARK YOUR CALENDAR:

november

11/1

dia de los muertos festival

Enjoy an evening filled with tradition, community and Hispanic culture. Highlights include live musical performances, food and drink, and costume contests for dogs, kids and adults.

Delmar Loop | Free | 4-10:30 p.m. visittheloop.com

11/4-11/16

the notebook

Based on the best-selling novel that inspired the iconic film, the musical follows the story of Allie and Noah, who share a lifetime of love despite the forces that threaten to pull them apart.

The Fabulous Fox Theatre | $44.50-$143 Various showtimes | 314.534.1111 fabulousfox.com

11/6-11/16

st. louis international film festival

Explore the boundless expression offered through the art of cinema. Presented by Cinema St. Louis, the festival brings more than 250 films from around the world to the StL. Various locations | $12-$500 Various showtimes | cinemastlouis.org

11/7

sips, souls and strolls

Learn the stories of the women artists of Bellefontaine Cemetery and Arboretum through this special guided tour. Guests will also get to enjoy beer, wine and hors d’oeuvres. Bellefontaine Cemetery and Arboretum Free | 5:30 p.m. | 314.381.0750 bellefontainecemetery.org

11/7

dogman: the musical

Based on the worldwide bestselling hit series by Dav Pilkey, the musical comedy follows the adventures of Dog Man, who has the head of a dog and the body of a policeman, as he tries his best to be a good boy and save the city.

Stifel Theatre | $97.50-$37.25 | 7 p.m. 314.499.7600 | stifeltheatre.com

11/8 veterans day parade and celebration

Show your support for our veterans and those who have served our nation.

Soldiers Memorial | Free | 10:30 a.m. 314.818.6780 | mohistory.org

11/8

laumeier after dark

Take advantage of this unique opportunity to explore Laumeier Sculpture Park at night. Enjoy light-based art installations, check out live music, and shop at the Night Market, which features goods from local makers.

Laumeier Sculpture Park | 4-10 p.m. 314.615.5278 | laumeiersculpturepark.org

11/14

marcus miller

Spend the evening with one of the most influential artists of our time. The Grammy Award-winner has worked with icons like Bill Wither, Luther Vandross, Chaka Khan, Eric Clapton, Aretha Franklin and Elton John.

The Sheldon | $41-$66 | 8 p.m. 314.533.9900 | thesheldon.org

11/15 & 11/16

the lion king in concert Hakuna matata! Experience the original animated classic on the big screen while the St. Louis Symphony Orchestra performs Hans Zimmer’s Oscar-winning score live.

Powell Hall | $24-$56 | 2 and 7 p.m. 314.534.1700 | slso.org

11/16

voices of change, protest: from martin luther to bob dylan

Saint Louis Chamber Chorus explores how the fight against corruption, injustice and tyranny has long inspired artists to channel their protest through music with a program that stretches from the Protestant Reformation to the Civil Rights Movement.

Lutheran Church of Atonement

$10.35-$41.40 | 3 p.m. | 636.458.4343 chamberchorus.org

10/23

rufus wainwright

The lauded singer-songwriter brings an intimate performance to the StL for two shows.

City Winery | $75-$105 | 5 and 8:30 p.m. 314.678.5060 | citywinery.com

OFF the cuff claiborne nikko smith w/

When St. Louisans hear the name Nikko Smith, their reaction may be, “Ozzie’s son?” Or they might remember him as the “Comeback Kid” on American Idol 20 years ago. A lot has happened since then. He’s the lead singer for the band Dirty Muggs, among other projects. Yes, Nikko is more than just doing fine, and it’s about to get better.

HOW DID YOU GET INTO PERFORMING?

I blame my mom. I have been singing and dancing from a young age. I would record myself acting like I was the host of Soul Train , and then I’d turn the camera around and also be the performer. My mom had me sing in church, and when I was 11, she signed me up for Ray Park’s dance academy. I started competing in dance competitions, and when Ray found I could sing, he put me in for that as well. From that point on, it was all about singing for me.

NOT ALL PERFORMERS CAN SING, AND NOT ALL SINGERS CAN PERFORM. HOW DO YOU MANAGE TO DO BOTH?

Practice. My dad instilled my work ethic in me. You have to practice until it becomes second nature.

WHAT ARTISTS INSPIRED YOU?

I was a super big Michael Jackson fan. On my 9th birthday, I got to see him in concert. We went backstage to meet him, and I even got to dance on stage with other kids. I was in the back doing all of the Michael moves, and he brought me to the front. I knew it was my time to shine. At that point, the stage wasn’t Michael’s anymore. It was mine.

YOU WERE IN CALIFORNIA. WHY MOVE BACK TO ST. LOUIS?

Long story short, I was in L.A. for about seven years. Things were going great, but I was starting to miss St. Louis. My parents were here, and my brother was beginning to have kids. I felt like I was missing out on a lot. At the same time, I didn’t want to come back to St. Louis and deal with starting my own band. I thought if it was meant to be, God would give me an opportunity. It just so happens that I got a D.M. from Lotty London of Dirty Muggs. The band was looking for somebody to sing with them. I came to St. Louis for a trial show, and just like that, I was moving back.

WHY WAS DIRTY MUGGS THE RIGHT FIT?

I’ve been doing bands since I got back from American Idol . I worked with great musicians, but sometimes, attitudes and personalities clash, so you move on and you move forward. It’s rare to be able to slide into a band and click with everybody. Dee Dee James gave me the opportunity to not only be a part of Dirty Muggs but also help take the band to the next level. It’s been an amazing learning experience, and I wouldn’t trade it for anything.

GO-TO SPOT TO EAT AFTER A GIG.

Steak ‘n’ Shake—give me a triple steakburger with cheese.

IF YOU WEREN’T A MUSICIAN, WHAT WOULD YOU BE DOING?

It would either be acting or martial arts. I was really into Bruce Lee at the same time I was into Michael Jackson and Prince.

WHAT’S NEXT?

I’ve been writing and putting out music for a long time. Starting with Dirty Muggs, one of the big plans was to start doing original material. That’s the next step. &

> Read the entire interview on townandstyle.com.

MATT SORRELL KNOWS ST. LOUIS. As a freelance writer for more than 20 years, he’s covered regional news, events, businesses and more. His favorite subject? The StL’s bustling culinary community. Now, he’s sharing his knowledge with the world in his new book, Matt’s St. Louis Food Story: Bars, Restaurants, Shops, and Other Purveyors

Sorrell is a native St. Louisan, having grown up in Kirkwood. “A lot of my childhood was really idyllic,” he says. “We had wonderful neighbors, I went to an excellent school, and I had some great teachers. I was very lucky.” Food wasn’t really something he thought about growing up. His palate was limited to what his mother served for dinner. “It was usually meat and potatoes,” he explains. “The first time I really stretched outside of my comfort zone was in high school. My girlfriend wanted to go to a Chinese restaurant. It was Americanized, but I thought it was really cool. I realized there was food out there other than what my mom made.”

During time spent overseas while serving in the Army, Sorrell further expanded his culinary horizons. “I got to try authentic dishes from different countries,” he recalls. “I had my first taste of kimchi in Korea—it’s still one of my favorite foods.” After returning stateside, Sorrell earned an English degree from Webster University and put it to work as a freelance writer for various local and national publications. Initially, he was focused on covering regional news and happenings, but in the early 2000s, he was able to start writing about the St. Louis culinary scene.

With two decades spent covering food news in St. Louis, Sorrell has a unique perspective on how the region has developed. He’s excited to see how much more national recognition local restaurants and bars are receiving. “Every year, we now have a few James Beard Award nominees—that wasn’t happening before,” he says. “I think the spotlight first shifted to St. Louis when Pappy’s got a slot on Man v. Food, and it’s only grown bigger since with more Travel Channel and Food Network shows visiting and national publications like Food & Wine and The New York Times taking note of what is happening here.”

The success of the culinary culture in St. Louis is not a surprise to Sorrell. After all, he has firsthand experience exploring everything that makes the StL unique. “We have so many great restaurants, bars and stores—I always say that we easily can compete with larger markets pound for pound,” he notes. “The restaurant community here is very supportive. It’s a tight-knit group, and there’s more camaraderie than competition. St. Louis also is home to many great immigrant communities. You can sample food from all over the world. That’s unusual for a city of our size in the Midwest.”

MATT SORRELL OF MATT’S ST. LOUIS FOOD STORY

When it comes to his favorite local places to eat, Sorrell likes to stick close to his Richmond Heights home, frequenting the restaurants and bars in Maplewood. He enjoys visiting Acero, Side Project Brewing and Locoz Tacoz Taqueria. “They have the best lengua tacos in the world,” he says of the latter. “My wife and I have a lot of friends in the industry, so when we leave our neighborhood and go on tour, we like to visit them.”

For all of his culinary expertise, Sorrell does not spend much time in the kitchen himself. “I’m not a cook,” he admits. However, that does not mean he does express himself through epicurean pursuits. After interviewing several bartenders, he took an interest in mixology. With 15 years of experience as a bartender, he has worked at some notable local establishments, including Planter’s House and Bistro La Floraison. “I’ve gotten lucky and been able to meet a couple of my heroes, like Dale DeGroff and Gaz Regan, while working behind the bar,” he says. “They’re old school bartenders who have literally written the books on cocktails.”

With Matt’s St. Louis Food Story, Sorrell is using his extensive experience covering local restaurants, bars and shops to inspire others. He explains that his goal with the book is to ultimately intrigue his readers. “I really hope to instill a sense of curiosity that gets people out of their comfort zones,” he says. “We tend to be creatures of habit, and while I think it’s great to have our regular spots and hangouts, there is so much more out there. Try something new or revisit an old favorite you may have forgotten about. St. Louis has so much to enjoy—everyone

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